I tried many times to give up smoking and was a dismal failure each time. The longest I went for was 18 months and ended up back on about 50 a day. Both of us smoked about the same amount. We where out in the car for most of the day and I spat the dummy over something trivial (of course) and when the wife asked if I wanted a smoke I acted like a kid and said NO. Thought to myself I will see how long I can do this for intending all the time to have one because I was really gagging for a hit of tar. Well one hour led to two and so forth. That was about twenty years ago now and in my mind I still have only given them away for a while and not given up smoking at all. It took the wife another twelve years before she gave them away. I tried to explain to her that I found that the craving for a fag did not go away but the length of the craving got shorter each time and the time between them got longer to the extent that I would get a real urge for a fag for about two seconds twice a year and now I do not even get that and she now admits that I was right as she still gets the odd craving about once a year. So maybe it is all in the mind and if you can convince yourself that you will have one later on but try to see how long before you do could end up that you never have it.
Hands up all those ex smokers that now know what a smoker smells like and can now see why others used to move away from you when you entered a room.
That's the way the mop flops.
My thanks to Brian for this site.