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12th August 2016, 08:46 PM
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The Guy in the Glass
When you get what you want in your struggle for pelf,
And the world makes you King for a day,
Then go to the mirror and look at yourself,
And see what that guy has to say.
For it isn't your Father, or Mother, or Wife,
Who judgement upon you must pass.
The feller whose verdict counts most in your life
Is the guy staring back from the glass.
He's the feller to please, never mind all the rest,
For he's with you clear up to the end,
And you've passed your most dangerous, difficult test
If the guy in the glass is your friend.
You may be like Jack Horner and "chisel" a plum,
And think you're a wonderful guy,
But the man in the glass says you're only a bum
If you can't look him straight in the eye.
You can fool the whole world down the pathway of years,
And get pats on the back as you pass,
But your final reward will be heartaches and tears
If you've cheated the guy in the glass.
Peter Dale Wimbrow
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12th August 2016, 09:32 PM
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Think i know what this means, ta k. Will work for me. Xx k
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13th August 2016, 06:32 AM
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Marion, it all depends on the time of day when you look at him and the anmount of grog he had consumed the night before, or where he had been and what he had been up to. There have been times when the man in the glass had no possible connection to the man looking at him.


Happy daze John in Oz.
Life is too short to blend in.
John Strange R737787
World Traveller

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13th August 2016, 04:19 PM
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I would have bet dollars to doughnuts (and lost obviously) that this was authored by Rudyard Kipling. I will have to look-up Mr. Wimbro, thanks.
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13th August 2016, 04:54 PM
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I don't recognise that man in the glass.
I am 18 but a 81 year old looks at me,
, I am young, handsome and high class
So that cannot be me
not some old geezer on the bones of his ass.
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a load of rubbish I know,
Brian, burbling after emptying my bottle of Mount Gay Rum from Barbados.
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13th August 2016, 05:22 PM
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In reading "Wimbro's" poem from the top to the bottom. thus not seeing the authors name, I would have bet dollars to doughnuts (and lost) that this poem was written by Rudyard Kipling. I've just looked up the author and read another of his works "My religion", a marvelous piece, I will find the rest of his oeuvre, which I am sure will be equally as enjoyable. Thank you.
This is my favorite Kipling poem:
If.
If you can keep your head when all about you are
loosing theirs and blaming it on you.
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
or being hated but don't give way to hating, and
yet don't look to good nor talk to wise;
If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
If you can think—and not make thoughts your master;
if you can meet with triumph and disaster and
treat these two imposters just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
and stoop and build em up with worn out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
and risk them on one turn of pitch and toss,
and lose, And start again at your beginnings
and never breath a word about your loss.
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
to serve your turn long after they are gone.
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
except the will which said to them, "Hold on!"
If you can talk with crowds and keep your common
virtue,
Or walk with Kings—nore lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, But none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
with sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the earth and everything that's in it,
And—which is more—you'll be a Man, my son!
Rudyard Kipling
Magnificent! Years ago I tried to make this my mantra, unfortunately for me I have never made more than an ambitious fifty percent at any one time..., but I am still trying.
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14th August 2016, 04:05 PM
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As a belated birthday present Marion here is a little gift:
My Religion
by Dale Wimbrow
MY CHURCH, AND MY CREED
You ask me "what is my religion"?
Now what if I say I have None?
You'll be wrongly impressed,
And unduly distressed
So wait - I have only begun.
My creed in the sense that you mean it,
Has no single symbol, or sign.
Big, impressive, or small,
There is good in them all,
So perhaps Your religion is mine.
My doctrine is any that stands for
The honor and virtue of men.
For whatever we preach,
We're all striving to reach
A mutual goal in the end.
My church is the one that is nearest
Wherever I happen to be.
The place where men go
Their devotion to show,
Is good - and sufficient for me.
What matters the Name on the mileposts
That stand by the path you have trod?
If the pathway leads UP
Then at last you shall sup
With the infinite army of God.
Thank you for the introduction to this fine poet.
Rodney
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