I have an ex friend who I sailed with on BP LNG carriers he left and got a cracking job with BP Exploration earned a fortune. He was a second mate with his masters ticket and had been offered his C/Off job before he moved across to BP Expo.
He did a few years with them and then was based in Singapore involved in Single hull tanker convesrsion to FSU's.
He decided he wanted to join the RNR is it? and fullfilled his dream, admirable. Something happened to him though and he is that far up his own ars- and so full of his own self importance it is unbelievable. He did a spell in Afghanastan and to listen to him you would think he was the missing link out there for the UK forces. He went on about how he had joined the Naval Club in London. He would post photos of himself on Face Book in his finery he is a 2&1/2 ringer now so has progressed I suppose. A few of us started to take the micky out of him, light hearted and he got in a right strop saying we were disrepectful to his rank and the Queens Uniform. In the end one by one we told him eff off. Last I heard he was that busy playing Nelson his Mrs buggered of her best friend who by all accounts is a lovely girl.