By registering with our site you will have full instant access to:
268,000 posts on every subject imaginable contributed by 1000's of members worldwide.
25000 photos and videos mainly relating to the British Merchant Navy.
Members experienced in research to help you find out about friends and relatives who served.
The camaraderie of 1000's of ex Merchant Seamen who use the site for recreation & nostalgia.
Here we are all equal whether ex Deck Boy or Commodore of the Fleet.
A wealth of experience and expertise from all departments spanning 70+ years.
It is simple to register and membership is absolutely free.
N.B. If you are going to be requesting help from one of the forums with finding historical details of a relative
please include as much information as possible to help members assist you. We certainly need full names,
date and place of birth / death where possible plus any other details you have such as discharge book numbers etc.
Please post all questions onto the appropriate forum
As I feel there are quite a few on here that have NOT updated their Email addresses, can you please do so. It is of importance that your Email is current, so as we can contact you if applicable . Send me the details in my Private Message Box.
Thank You Doc Vernon
-
5th October 2017, 07:47 PM
#1
Female Deck Officers
I attended the MN Day in during which I met a lady who had been 2nd Mate on a Mobil tanker ,I posed the question what was the male deckhand re action Her answer was they were all Indians and called me sir.Anybody have experience of female deck officers ?
-
Post Thanks / Like
-
5th October 2017, 08:47 PM
#2
Re: Female Deck Officers
Yes I have sailed with plenty over the last 20 years , some very good some bloody awful. I have also sailed with female engineers likewise. To balance things out the same can be said with a lot of lads I sailed with as well.
A few caused trouble in the bar and on BP once a 3/off complained that the magazines that the company sent out to the ships were sexist. Magazines such as Top Gear, FHM , Men Total Health so she was asked to submit a list of publications she thought would be suitable. She did and the company just said no more magazines.
So the company stopped sending out any magazines. I suppose this will sound sexist but to be honest the sooner they settled the flighty ones landed a bunk the better. Oh and before I start getting grief no not all of the girls were like that.
On one Bibby ship a female 3/off was hot bedding that much the top ended up with a sexually transmitted disease. To be honest it was quite funny, she obviously did not put out for other ranks.
-
Post Thanks / Like
-
5th October 2017, 08:53 PM
#3
Re: Female Deck Officers
Not MN but I have seen many Females in the RAN here,went aboard with my Adopted Granddaughter and Wow! More Females than Males on that Ship,and so many with Gold all over! Good on them!
Cheers
Senior Site Moderator-Member and Friend of this Website
R697530
-
Post Thanks / Like
-
6th October 2017, 04:47 AM
#4
Re: Female Deck Officers
The only female officers of any note I ever encountered were in the Pursers office, and one regularly in the senior second engineers bed.
Murphy had a great time with her.


Happy daze John in Oz.
Life is too short to blend in.
John Strange R737787
World Traveller

-
Post Thanks / Like
-
6th October 2017, 07:49 AM
#5
Re: Female Deck Officers
Not MN, but my wife is a pretty tough old bird, she's put up with me for 52 years . They are capable of most jobs, you only have to look at the women during the 2nd WW, and what jobs they did, kt
-
Post Thanks / Like
-
6th October 2017, 08:09 AM
#6
Re: Female Deck Officers
Beleive there is someone on Site from Kingston on Thames , maybe they remember the factory behind the Regal cinema on Richmond High Street . Believe was called the Hawker Hunter factory. Used to make spare parts for spitfires and hurricanes. My mother was trained to fill in as a fitter and turner. She was Good on the lathe. Worked there nearly 5 years. JWS
Last edited by j.sabourn; 6th October 2017 at 08:10 AM.
-
Post Thanks / Like
-
6th October 2017, 08:19 AM
#7
Re: Female Deck Officers
I have met good and bad of both sexes in engineering shore-side , but the women have all had to struggle for the better jobs , at sea only , nursing sister , purserettes , chilly ho , and one sparkyl
Rob Page R855150 - British & Commonwealth Shipping ( 1965 - 1973 ) Gulf Oil -( 1973 - 1975 ) Sealink ( 1975 - 1986 ) 

-
Post Thanks / Like
-
6th October 2017, 08:21 AM
#8
Re: Female Deck Officers
Not relevant really but in a lot of in the ship yards in China the crane drivers are female. There thinking is that a female has a better feel for when lifting or lowering ship sections into place(the gentle touch). If it had not been for women during the war years in the munitions factories we would all be speaking a different language today.
Just remembered first female c/eng was a Victoria Drummond.
Victoria Drummond - Britain's first female marine engineer - The Scotsman
Last edited by Lewis McColl; 6th October 2017 at 08:23 AM.
-
Post Thanks / Like
-
6th October 2017, 03:14 PM
#9
Re: Female Deck Officers
same thing T34 drivers Lewis
-
Post Thanks / Like
-
7th October 2017, 04:10 AM
#10
Re: Female Deck Officers
I must say here and now that I am not a person who raves about women at sea in any capacity ! Whether it be ships staff, wives of staff, or passengers. This is not because I am a male chauvinist but because the ships I were on were a minefield of potential disasters for women and children. I have only once sailed with a female second mate, who was there because her boyfriend was mate and the company took him off and that's how I was put there as mate. She was competent enough apart from being unable to do heavy manual work. To me that is not the point, people when they talk about the modern world and about equality of the sexes I agree, but we don't live in a world of competition like some like to make it. I have old values and was on tenterhooks every time my own family were on board. The hypocrisy of the shipowner of going along with public sentiment of the day and employing women on his ships, when just previous to this all women had to be off the vessel at sunset just shows how keen he was to show he was a likeable bloke. He went to all sorts of trouble to arrange toilet and accomodation re-arrangements where previous to this with all male crews he couldn't give a toss. It was a PR job. In general. Myself as said didn't like and still wouldn't like women on ships. They were a distraction , often caused trouble especially amongst crews wife's. And in the case of an emergency would have to be looked after first taking ones mind off the job in hand. Myself I like women to enhance their sexuality and not try and put it in competition with the big hairy male ones. The male and females sex are different in lots of ways, this should not be a source of comparison in work matters. I"ll take my females in a more domestic and peaceful surroundings in rural settings. Leave those who find it comfortable having females always around to those who work on passenger vessels. Who have the personnel to cater to such. Cheers JWS...
Last edited by j.sabourn; 7th October 2017 at 04:59 AM.
-
Post Thanks / Like
Tags for this Thread
Posting Permissions
- You may not post new threads
- You may not post replies
- You may not post attachments
- You may not edit your posts
-
Forum Rules