By registering with our site you will have full instant access to:
268,000 posts on every subject imaginable contributed by 1000's of members worldwide.
25000 photos and videos mainly relating to the British Merchant Navy.
Members experienced in research to help you find out about friends and relatives who served.
The camaraderie of 1000's of ex Merchant Seamen who use the site for recreation & nostalgia.
Here we are all equal whether ex Deck Boy or Commodore of the Fleet.
A wealth of experience and expertise from all departments spanning 70+ years.
It is simple to register and membership is absolutely free.
N.B. If you are going to be requesting help from one of the forums with finding historical details of a relative
please include as much information as possible to help members assist you. We certainly need full names,
date and place of birth / death where possible plus any other details you have such as discharge book numbers etc.
Please post all questions onto the appropriate forum
-
21st September 2017, 02:29 PM
#1
Dad
-
Post Thanks / Like
Captain Kong,
Red Lead Ted,
N/A,
Dennis McGuckin,
Ivan Cloherty,
j.sabourn,
Trader,
Charlie Hannah,
happy daze john in oz,
Brenda Shackleton,
Louis the fly thanked for this post
-
21st September 2017, 02:41 PM
#2
Re: Dad
Hi Robert,
what a Great Man your Dad was and a very sad ending.
another casualty of war. So many brave men tormented by the memories of all those Tragedies. of it.
Thank you for sharing the story with us.
Cheers
Brian
-
Post Thanks / Like
-
21st September 2017, 02:48 PM
#3
Re: Dad
Rob, A father to be very proud of in my book, If you could bring him and a few more like him back i wonder what they would be prepared to pay to get out of the grips of the sham E.U. Because of men like him we owe nothing payed in full 62 years ago, Total Respect for a remarkable seaman Terry.
Last edited by Red Lead Ted; 21st September 2017 at 03:49 PM.
{terry scouse}
-
Post Thanks / Like
-
21st September 2017, 03:35 PM
#4
Re: Dad
Originally Posted by
Robert George Young
Hi Robert, hope you don't mind. I have sent your link to our
RCNA. I'm sure they will find it very interesting.
Regards. Den.
-
Post Thanks / Like
-
21st September 2017, 05:45 PM
#5
Re: Dad
thankyou Brian
- - - Updated - - -
thankyou Terry...brings a tear to my eye that respect...thankyou...
- - - Updated - - -
Thankyou Den, no problem.....I wish I was more in tune with my dads war efforts when I was a young guy....But I suppose thats not how it works....thankyou...He was in Merchant next 20 plus years...
-
Post Thanks / Like
-
21st September 2017, 10:01 PM
#6
Re: Dad
Hi Robert,
Thanks for that.
Your Dad was indeed an noble seaman.
Lucy to have survive those sinking's.
Den.
-
Post Thanks / Like
-
21st September 2017, 10:10 PM
#7
Re: Dad
Hello Robert
A truly inspiring Story on your Dad,i am amazed at all the Pics and info you have managed to gather together,it really must be great to have all those memories of a Father that went through so much.
No matter what he did I know you would be very proud of him,and yes many suffered some sort of traumatic issues during and after the Wars.
I can relate to some of that with my late Father too.
Your Dad was an incredible sailor and did his duties for King and Country
Yes always hold him in esteem,and very very dear to your Heart!
Thank you so much for this wonderful Thread! Inspiring indeed!
Last edited by Doc Vernon; 21st September 2017 at 10:13 PM.
Senior Site Moderator-Member and Friend of this Website
R697530
-
Post Thanks / Like
-
21st September 2017, 10:52 PM
#8
Re: Dad
Thanks for your input Robert. A lot of us on Site sailed with those who were torpedoed or mined during the war. It was rare for them to talk about it. You have brought your fathers name into the light. A lot did turn to drink maybe as much as 20 years later, they probably saw it as a way of containing the ghosts. Many many more must have been in similar circumstances and did exactly the same as your father. These were the real heroes and suffered the rest of their lives in silence. Today they talk about counselling and trauma treatment if so desire. In your Father's Day the treatment was a cigarette a tot of rum and a blanket to keep the body temperature up. All things today advised against. This was one of the subjects one was taught under the heading of safety in many cases. If your father could see today some of the remarks on the post of safety, he would probably have a good laugh. He and many others were responsible for peace as we knew it , until the politicians messed it up once again. Be proud of your Dad. Rgds JWS
-
Post Thanks / Like
-
22nd September 2017, 01:13 AM
#9
Re: Dad
Your Dad was a very brave man Robert. Be very proud of him.
-
Post Thanks / Like
-
22nd September 2017, 08:52 AM
#10
Re: Dad
Bob to have served 20 to 30 years in the MN after his Royal Navy service your father must have been able to keep his alcoholism under control , at least when he was at sea.
A very difficult thing to do as in those days ships were in port for long periods and the temptation to drink always there. Not only a brave man but also a man with tremendous will power.
I have sailed with many men who destroyed themselves with booze when on leave. You are on your own perhaps without a permanent place to call home , not eating or sleeping properly and the drink takes over. When these men joined their next ship they were wrecks , without a penny to their name , but after three or four days of drying out , beginning to eat and sleep again they became some of the finest men you could sail with.
-
Post Thanks / Like
Tags for this Thread
Posting Permissions
- You may not post new threads
- You may not post replies
- You may not post attachments
- You may not edit your posts
-
Forum Rules