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26th November 2013, 06:44 PM
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bloody awful day
Today has not been a good one for me, in fact its been s***, my little friend with the waggly tail has had to be put to sleep, 13 and a half years for a dear dog, the house now seems empty, so now i am going to sit down and smear into a bottle of wine, maybe two. Last time with animals, its too painful when they go,, KT
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26th November 2013, 06:49 PM
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Re: bloody awful day
keith
I know just how you feel.
It's like a family member went.
Only dog owners understand.
I had to do that terrible thing in 2011.
It's hell.
But you can all ways sit and remember the great times you had with the pal.
Ron the batcave
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26th November 2013, 07:06 PM
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Re: bloody awful day
Sorry to hear that Keith. I sometimes think it isn't until you lose them that you realise how close the bond is.
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26th November 2013, 07:16 PM
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Re: bloody awful day
Keith I know exactly how you feel, my little cat had to go 2 months ago, she was 22 years old. As you say no more for me either.
John Albert Evans
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26th November 2013, 07:22 PM
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Re: bloody awful day
keith my last dog sox out of all the dogs I had he was the best and I have always had a dog the morning he passed I knew the exact time and I was working miles away from home something inside told me I would never see him again it was like losing my right arm its been 6 years since he passed and although I have a good dog now I still think of sox every day his ashes are in our front room and they will go in with me when my time comes? very sorry mate I know what you are going through but go and get another one and give it a good home they are the best mate you will ever have? so sorry mate.jp
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26th November 2013, 07:48 PM
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Re: bloody awful day
Thanks for those thoughts guys, you obviously know how i feel. My son whose dog it really was, failed marriage so lived with us virtually all her life, asked the vet about cremation , the receptionist asked if we would want just her ashes alone, or a mixture of other dogs, i was bloody astounded. so they obviously do a job lot!!.. Needless to say she is now in my garden in a sunny spot. Regards KT
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26th November 2013, 07:56 PM
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Re: bloody awful day
Hi Shipmates,Only time will heal the empty space a pet fills, sorry for your loss, Pepe the poddle and the Bookie I had a shop a few year ago next door was an antique shop , the owner /my landlord was a on the rails bookmaker/money lender + other things you would not want to mess with him!!! Well the only soft spot in his whole live was for "pepe a small white poddle he took it to the vet every week for an injection to keep "pepe alive cost £50,00 a time a lot of money then ,my rent for shop was £40.00 a week , his family and wife would not get a penny out of him, The sad day came when the injection did not work he asked me to look after pepe he took off his very expensive sheepskin coat to wrap up his pepe , I went into his car a top of the range Land rover in the front seat untill he passed. { he was heart broken}he gave me £100 for my trouble and We/he drunk a bottle of scotch . A harder man I yet to meet.
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26th November 2013, 08:59 PM
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Re: bloody awful day
its refreshing to hear we are in the company of real men who can greave without worrying whether it indicates unmanlyiness.
I have 3 cats and a dog.All rescued and they mean very much to me although they cost me a fortune.
My dog suffers from epilepsy and has to have 3 tablets a day.One of my cats came to us with a broken tail and has had an op for gall stones.cost 3000euro plus a special diet for life and monthly visits for spells in hospital also had most of her teeth out through gingervitis(costly op) plus an ingrowing claw(expensive op) so one day I will be able to afford to have my teeth done.
Couldn't live without any of them.They cost me almost as much as the wife
Really feel for you keith
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26th November 2013, 09:39 PM
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26th November 2013, 10:00 PM
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Re: bloody awful day
I have a video of sox on my phone the phone is battered and every few months I get the offer of one of these blackbury things always refuse. the on off has to be done with a knife as the button is cracked but knowing the video of our last walk on the beach 3 days before he past is a great comfort although I never watch it I cant but just to know I have something of him left gives me great comfort I started oil painting a month before he passed and he used to sit by me all the time he was never more than 6ft away from me I always sign the paintings sox so if any come across one you know were it came from I give them to charities dogs lifeboat any that can raise money? john albert evans looked at a few in Liverpool meet up. funny thing about us most of us have seen people die on the job but when your pet dies that's when you can shed a tear.jp
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