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Doc Vernon
18th August 2011, 07:45 AM
To All on site!

With Brians permission i have to inform all that Brians dear Wife Carol lost her battle with cancer Yesterday the 17th and passed away!
As most would have known Carol had been battling for some time with this terrible disease!
She is now at rest and out of all that Pain!
May Carol now go with God and rest in Peace!

I for one now send my very Sincerest condolences to Brian and Family,and hope that the coming days will not prove to be too much! Stay strong Brian!
He at least has someone by his side with his Brother James.
As yet there are no known facts about the Funeral etc!He has a very hard time ahead!

As you grieve know that we are remembering you and honoring the memory of dear Carol
With deepest Sympathy
Vernon and Irene

I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.

Ron B Manderson
18th August 2011, 08:25 AM
God bless.
My thoughts are with you Brian
Ron the batcave

18th August 2011, 08:36 AM
I cannot say more Brian. So sad about Carol. We Share your Grief.

Davey (Gulliver)

Albert Bishop
18th August 2011, 08:42 AM
Really sorry to hear that news, Can only add my sincere condolences, Words arn't enough on these occasions. Albi

Geoff Anderson
18th August 2011, 08:42 AM
My thoughts are with you Brian and family. Rest in peace Carol.

Chris Allman
18th August 2011, 08:45 AM
Dear Brian,

Please accept my most sincere condolences, my thoughts are with you and your family at such a sad time. God Bless you.


Mike Hall
18th August 2011, 09:06 AM
i am sorry to hear of your sad loss.
having met carol,i know she was a lovely lady.
we are all here for you.
p.s.have sent a private e-mail.

please note,i shall be using the thanks button on behalf of brian.

John Callon
18th August 2011, 09:22 AM
May God bless you at this sad time, Brian. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Kind Regards,
John Callon

18th August 2011, 09:42 AM
Dear Brian I am so saddened on the passing of our Dear Carol.. My most heartfelt sympathy to you and families.
Love Beth
HSOD (R86295)

Captain Kong
18th August 2011, 10:09 AM
So Sad,
My thoughts are also with you at this sad time.
After all that suffering she is now at peace.

Ray Buck
18th August 2011, 10:37 AM
Brian and Family, my sincere condolences at such a sad time.


18th August 2011, 11:23 AM
Sincerest condolances to you Brian and your family.May she rest in peace.Free from pain now. xxx

18th August 2011, 05:43 PM
My deepest condolences to you Brian and all of your family on the sad loss of your dear wife.

Keith at Tregenna
18th August 2011, 06:01 PM
There are no words, but if a few were chosen to echo thoughts they may be these?

Look for me in Rainbows

Time for me to go now, I won't say goodbye;
Look for me in rainbows, way up in the sky.
In the morning sunrise when all the world is new,
Just look for me and love me, as you know I loved you.

Time for me to leave you, I won't say goodbye;
Look for me in rainbows, high up in the sky.
In the evening sunset, when all the world is through,
Just look for me and love me, and I'll be close to you.

It won't be forever, the day will come and then
My loving arms will hold you, when we meet again.

Time for us to part now, we won't say goodbye;
Look for me in rainbows, shining in the sky.
Every waking moment, and all your whole life through
Just look for me and love me, as you know I loved you.

Just wish me to be near you,
And I'll be there with you.

My Deepest Sympathy and Condolences, Keith.

Bill Cameron
18th August 2011, 06:13 PM
Thinking of you Brian and your loss, I know how you feel, but keep your chin up mate.

Pete Leonard (Bruno)
18th August 2011, 06:16 PM
my deepest sympathy and condolences on the loss of your wife. I think I know what you are going through at the moment, because I went through something similar five years ago. The pain never really goes away but it does lessen after a while. It helps if you have a loving family and friends around you.

Glan Phillips
18th August 2011, 06:27 PM
My sincere sympathy and condolences to Brian and family, Brian was a strong support for me when I lost my wife 6 years ago, being stuck in a 'foreign' country alone, still am....hoping to make it back home. Brian, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Carol, may you R.I.P.



18th August 2011, 07:04 PM
Deepest sympathy and condolences to Brian and family. RIP Carol free from pain now.

Sincerely Alec.

Keith at Tregenna
18th August 2011, 11:44 PM
Hopefully an appropriate thought:

Words are seldom best received at a time of grief, a later reflection tends to see those that care and feel most. These are those that stand by you if and when possible.

Dont Cry for me

Don't cry for me now I have died, for I'm still here I'm by your side,
My body's gone but my soul's is here, please don't shed another tear,
I am still here I'm all around, only my body lies in the ground.
I am the snowflake that kisses your nose,
I am the frost, that nips your toes.
I am the sun ,bringing you light,
I am the star, shining so bright.
I am the rain, refreshing the earth,
I am the laughter, I am the mirth.
I am the bird, up in the sky,
I am the cloud, that's drifting by.
I am the thoughts, inside your head,
While I'm still there, I can't be dead.

Author unknown.


Lou Barron
19th August 2011, 01:12 AM
my thoughts are with you on this sad occassion i send my condolences regards lou barron

19th August 2011, 04:28 AM
Brian, please accept my sincere condolences and deepest sympathy for your tragic loss. My thoughts are with you at this sad time.

Kindest regards

happy daze john in oz
19th August 2011, 06:19 AM
I cannot ease your aching heart
Nor take your pain away
But let me stay and take your hand
And walk with you today
I'll listen when you need to talk
I'll wipe away your tears
I'll share your worries when they come
I'll help you face your fears
I'm here and will stand by you
On each hill you have to climb
So take my hand, let's face the world
And just take one day at a time
You're not alone for I'm still here
I'll go that extra mile
And when your grief is easier
I'll help you learn to smile.

Brian you may feel very vunerable now, but when the time comes and you need it the inner strength you have will prevail.

Friends are the leaves on the tree of life.

John Aspin
19th August 2011, 08:22 AM
Although we have never met I still feel that we are family because of your wonderful web site that has brought a lot of people closer together from all parts of the world.
It goes without saying that the very sad news we have all just received is heart breaking to say the least.
Most people these days, our family included, have been touched by this awful desease in some way or another, so now we would just like to pass on our sincere condolences to you at this very sad time.
We will at church on Sunday say a special prayer and light a candle for Carol and for you and all of your family of course.
God bless Carol and may she rest in peace.
Kathleen & John Aspin (R685343) Ormesby-Middlesbrough.

Mike Newell
19th August 2011, 08:27 AM
Sincere condolences Brian and family on your sad loss. God bless and RIP Carol.

Graham Payne
19th August 2011, 09:33 AM
Brian & Family,
Please accept my sincere condolences at this very sad time.

alf corbyn
19th August 2011, 09:43 AM
Dear Brian. my sincere condolances in your hour of grief. i am very sorry for your loss. alf

Michael Lawrence
19th August 2011, 11:51 AM
So sorry to hear the sad news Brian. Keep safe mate and remember the good times you shared.:)

19th August 2011, 08:20 PM
Although I do not know you or your late wife please as a fellow seararer accept my heartfelt condolances, it is so sad to loose one of us

Neil Morton
20th August 2011, 12:46 AM
What more can we say Brian? Take strength from our sincere and heartfelt words. Your work has brought us all together and we are with you at this sad time. Chin up mate.Neil.

David Williams
20th August 2011, 10:12 AM
What can one say at a time like this that will ease
Brians pain at the lose of Carol.God be with you.

Dave & Molly Williams

Ivan Cloherty
20th August 2011, 10:55 AM

I can only echoe Neil's words which say it all, we are thinking of you


John Pruden
20th August 2011, 02:22 PM
although new to the site my condolences at your loss. at sea a band of brothers on land the same.john

20th August 2011, 06:14 PM
condolences to Brian and family on your sad loss.

Jack Jenkins
21st August 2011, 05:19 AM
May I add my deepest sympathy at your sad loss. Kia Kaha


Bob Dunkley
21st August 2011, 10:26 AM
brian my sincere condolenses at the loss of your dear wife my thoughts are with you at this time

21st August 2011, 03:55 PM

I am so very sorry to hear this news.

Sometimes the hardest words to write are also the hardest words to read; your loss is immeasurable and nothing can replace your wonderful Carol and to look for answers is more than difficult, but please keep close to your heart the fact that time is but an earth-bound creature and nothing can take away the memories and the spirit that is hers and yours.

My very sincere thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time.

Russ Kennedy
22nd August 2011, 01:17 PM
May I add my sincere condolences to you and your family. May God be with you and yours and may He give you strength at this very sad time.
Russ Kennedy

Red Lead Ted
22nd August 2011, 11:55 PM
So So Sorry to here of your sad loss my friend. May the sun forever be in her face and the wind at her back R.I.P. Carol. Deepest condolences Brian Terry.

Ken Hitchcock
23rd August 2011, 12:43 AM
I'm sorry to read this sad news and I feel for Brian. Having survived three operations for cancer, I know now, how one's loved one has to strive to see the sun shine once more.
Ken Hitchcock. R540166.

Dennis Williams
26th August 2011, 12:03 AM
Brian , my deepest sympathy and condolences for your sad loss, my thoughts are with you mate.

Neville Roberts
26th August 2011, 05:59 PM
sorry to hear about your loss Brian , we all loose something, when one of ours passes.

27th August 2011, 06:56 PM
I thought woukd share this

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush.
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.

Mary Elizabeth Frye

Des Taff Jenkins
28th August 2011, 05:57 AM
I am so sorry to hear of Carol's passing, this is late as I was not aware I know, but my thoughts are with you, Take strength from the time you had together, cry at the pain but laugh at the jokes you shared, may the God's bless you.

30th August 2011, 10:06 PM
Dear Brian

So sorry to hear your sad news (have sent a private E-mail.)
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your Family at this sad time.
Carol you are now at peace and no more pain. R.I.P and God Bless.
Fondest Love.
Jean (Tiger1).